Girls aren't all that hard to find guys, they walk past you every day with thousands of things on their mind. You may be the answer to their prayers, just read and learn
1. Show interest. If you sit and talk to them for a few minutes and then go off and talk to another girl, that girl will automatically know you aren't serious about them, so they won't want you in the end.
2. Be the nice guy. Don't go up and grab her ass expecting her to laugh and like you instantly, try to get to know her and her personality
3. LOOK HER IN THE EYES! When you can tell them their eye color when they aren't looking, it just makes their heart melt that you weren't staring at your chest.
4. Ask for her number. If you ask for her number and she gives you it, she's most likely interested. WAIT to text her, if you text her like right as soon as you get the number, she will probably think your weird.
5. Girls like nice but naughty guys. She likes it when they are sensitive and listen, but she loves it when they have fun and enjoy their lives.
6. DO NOT PITY YOURSELF. if you sit and complain about how you've never had a girl friend or any friends at all, she will think you're pathetic.
7. FLIRT! In the good way, its funny when guys pull those cheezy pick up lines and it's kind of cute.
8. Learn your interests. If you have a lot in common, it will make things a lot easier and give you many things to talk about (unless you like to argue, then you need the opposite of you) They will flirt back
9. Have a sense of humor! Girls like to laugh, if you say stupid jokes they will just leave. But say something that will make her laugh and you will most likely have another date
10. Be yourself. Don't lie and make yourself this imaginary character that doesn't exist. she will find out some how
Well guys those are the top 10!
Signed
Aphrodite
<3
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Tips for Gents
Welcome gentlemen,
I know us women are very confusing. We are emotional, crazy over thinkers. Of course we never mean to hurt or confuse you, it's just our nature to want ceartain things from men.
Attention:
Women need attention. If they don't have attention, they tend to get a tad bit clingy. Yes we do look kind of crazy when we want to spend a lot of our time texting you and being with you. When we do that it means that we just want to be loved. Most women have issues with that because of the lack of attention from recent men who obviously left her (or else you wouldn't be in the picture). No you don't have to be with her every second of every day, but it's nice to pay a little attention to her. Call or text her in the morning telling her good morning beautiful (yes beautiful is mostly essential because women like to feel pretty) and maybe spend a few hours with her during the day. If you have school with her, spend lunch with her, try mixing your friends in at the same table. Go to the movies with her and maybe have a dinner with her. Trust me, in the long run if you show some attention to a girl, you will keep her a long time, and she won't get the feeling that other men will give her the attention she needs.
Call and Text:
Call or text once every morning and every night saying good morning and goodnight. It's a very sweet gesture and makes her believe you care. If she is out with her friends, don't blow her phone up. She needs girl time, just like you need guy time. If you get to clingy, it will make her very annoyed with you. Yes girls like a little clingy but texting every 5 minutes after she says she will text you later will just end badly. NEVER just ignore a text she sends to you, tell her you're busy with the guys and you will text her later. AND YOU HAVE TO TEXT HER LATER, or she will freak. Always live up to your word
Emotions:
Women have a LOT of emotions, they tend to think and feel a lot more then men do. If you don't pay attention to her emotions, she will just feel like you don't care about her. I know that our emotions don't make a lot of sense and sometimes it is stupid what we are upset about, but you gotta know that showing her you care about how she feels, makes you a better man in her eyes. She is going to need you a lot of the time when she needs a shoulder to cry on, and you are the best shoulder she can have. Pay attention to the love she shows you, because at the end of the day, she is the one there who will be there to love you and kiss you at the end of the day.
Fights:
When you're in a fight with a woman, you are bound to lose from the beginning. It is really bad to start yelling at her because she will only get you worse in the end. When you are your girl get into an arguement, just calmly explain to her what you feel, staying calm will make the fight end quicker. If you are in the middle of a big screaming match, she is going to make you feel lower than life. In the words of Dane Cook, Women are brain ninjas. They can say the smallest yet meanest thing to you to make your brain explode. When she starts agreeing with you and making hand motions, you just went into the world of hell! That's when the detinator is about to go off. Women know how to make a mans life hell, and men know how to make women cry. When you make her cry, you have just made the biggest mistake of all time. No you didn't win, you just brought yourself down more. Cuz now you have more women to deal with. They are going to tell her the things to do to make your life miserable and then you just lost the fight. By staying calm and listening to her also, it will give you the advantage in the end. Never leave. Always try to understand.
Cheating:
DON'T DO IT! No matter HOW tempting it is to follow that girl with a big ass or boobs walking by, don't. Only scumbags cheat. Women cheat because they feel unloved and unwanted. That means your doing something wrong. That goes back to attention. Trust me, go by the 80/20 rule. Don't cheat.
Sex:
Yes it's your favorite topic. Do not have sex with any random girl who throws herself at you, when they do that, that means they probably do that often to other men as well. You could end up with some disease that will kill you. Trust me that goes around a lot these days. Don't pressure your girl to have sex, you have to wait until she is ready. Kissing is good, touching is ok, don't force yourself on her. It's best to just wait for marriage but that is near impossible these days. Wait until she's ready and make sure she is the one you want. Remember that condoms aren't 100 percent. They can break, come off, and that happening could lead to a pregnancy, which your stuck with for the rest of your life. They will either get you for childsupport or you will have to spend the rest of your life with that girl. Just wait. trust me it's worth it.
Names:
The most common name you call a girl your dating is baby. Call her beautiful instead of sexy. it makes her feel very good. Never call her a bitch in a fight. thats a disaster waiting to happen. Stick with baby, beautiful, gorgeous, you know, the sweet stuff.
Never feel embarrassed by her, always tell your guys that she is yours. Oh and don't make her pay for anything on dates, that is just... well embarrassing for you.
Well gents, i think that is all i have for you, you be good guys, and trust me, i won't deceive you.
Aphrodite
<3
I know us women are very confusing. We are emotional, crazy over thinkers. Of course we never mean to hurt or confuse you, it's just our nature to want ceartain things from men.
Attention:
Women need attention. If they don't have attention, they tend to get a tad bit clingy. Yes we do look kind of crazy when we want to spend a lot of our time texting you and being with you. When we do that it means that we just want to be loved. Most women have issues with that because of the lack of attention from recent men who obviously left her (or else you wouldn't be in the picture). No you don't have to be with her every second of every day, but it's nice to pay a little attention to her. Call or text her in the morning telling her good morning beautiful (yes beautiful is mostly essential because women like to feel pretty) and maybe spend a few hours with her during the day. If you have school with her, spend lunch with her, try mixing your friends in at the same table. Go to the movies with her and maybe have a dinner with her. Trust me, in the long run if you show some attention to a girl, you will keep her a long time, and she won't get the feeling that other men will give her the attention she needs.
Call and Text:
Call or text once every morning and every night saying good morning and goodnight. It's a very sweet gesture and makes her believe you care. If she is out with her friends, don't blow her phone up. She needs girl time, just like you need guy time. If you get to clingy, it will make her very annoyed with you. Yes girls like a little clingy but texting every 5 minutes after she says she will text you later will just end badly. NEVER just ignore a text she sends to you, tell her you're busy with the guys and you will text her later. AND YOU HAVE TO TEXT HER LATER, or she will freak. Always live up to your word
Emotions:
Women have a LOT of emotions, they tend to think and feel a lot more then men do. If you don't pay attention to her emotions, she will just feel like you don't care about her. I know that our emotions don't make a lot of sense and sometimes it is stupid what we are upset about, but you gotta know that showing her you care about how she feels, makes you a better man in her eyes. She is going to need you a lot of the time when she needs a shoulder to cry on, and you are the best shoulder she can have. Pay attention to the love she shows you, because at the end of the day, she is the one there who will be there to love you and kiss you at the end of the day.
Fights:
When you're in a fight with a woman, you are bound to lose from the beginning. It is really bad to start yelling at her because she will only get you worse in the end. When you are your girl get into an arguement, just calmly explain to her what you feel, staying calm will make the fight end quicker. If you are in the middle of a big screaming match, she is going to make you feel lower than life. In the words of Dane Cook, Women are brain ninjas. They can say the smallest yet meanest thing to you to make your brain explode. When she starts agreeing with you and making hand motions, you just went into the world of hell! That's when the detinator is about to go off. Women know how to make a mans life hell, and men know how to make women cry. When you make her cry, you have just made the biggest mistake of all time. No you didn't win, you just brought yourself down more. Cuz now you have more women to deal with. They are going to tell her the things to do to make your life miserable and then you just lost the fight. By staying calm and listening to her also, it will give you the advantage in the end. Never leave. Always try to understand.
Cheating:
DON'T DO IT! No matter HOW tempting it is to follow that girl with a big ass or boobs walking by, don't. Only scumbags cheat. Women cheat because they feel unloved and unwanted. That means your doing something wrong. That goes back to attention. Trust me, go by the 80/20 rule. Don't cheat.
Sex:
Yes it's your favorite topic. Do not have sex with any random girl who throws herself at you, when they do that, that means they probably do that often to other men as well. You could end up with some disease that will kill you. Trust me that goes around a lot these days. Don't pressure your girl to have sex, you have to wait until she is ready. Kissing is good, touching is ok, don't force yourself on her. It's best to just wait for marriage but that is near impossible these days. Wait until she's ready and make sure she is the one you want. Remember that condoms aren't 100 percent. They can break, come off, and that happening could lead to a pregnancy, which your stuck with for the rest of your life. They will either get you for childsupport or you will have to spend the rest of your life with that girl. Just wait. trust me it's worth it.
Names:
The most common name you call a girl your dating is baby. Call her beautiful instead of sexy. it makes her feel very good. Never call her a bitch in a fight. thats a disaster waiting to happen. Stick with baby, beautiful, gorgeous, you know, the sweet stuff.
Never feel embarrassed by her, always tell your guys that she is yours. Oh and don't make her pay for anything on dates, that is just... well embarrassing for you.
Well gents, i think that is all i have for you, you be good guys, and trust me, i won't deceive you.
Aphrodite
<3
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Relationships (for ladies)
I am a girl who has been in many relationships, searching for love.. The love you could find in story books and fairytales.
Ladies:
If you get into a relationship with a guy, he won't be that prince charming that you have been searching for your whole life. They won't have that perfect personality, the one that shines like a diamond in the rough.
A relationship is a compact between two people who have a connection. Of course it's not set in stone that you are bound together forever. No man wants to feel that they have to be tied down by a girl in the 9th grade. Here are a few examples of what guys want.
If you ever get the feeling of cheating, don't follow the feeling. I know that sometimes you feel like it's a must because you feel ignored, but it's not a must. I swear that to you. Cheating makes you feel guilty and it's nearly impossible to forgive yourself.
Relationships are a two way street. Both you and the man need to talk, work at the relationship to make it better. Never depend on your family or your friends to make your relationship better. It angers a man when you tell every single problem to a friend, expecting the friend to fix it. Nobody can make things better, accept you.
Remember that confidence is sexy to a man. If you constantly put yourself down, the guy will get angry and will eventually give up on trying to make you have confidence. Smile when they give you a compliment. One thing that helps you with your confidence boost is to look at yourself everyday in the mirror and say "I'm beautiful". Look at yourself and look at the beautiful qualities you have. Men don't like women who put themselves down, it makes them sick to their stomach actually. Remember that.
Never say "i love you" too early. If you say i love you after one month of dating, it will be meaningless. You won't mean it. You have a lust for them, a attraction. If you say i love you to early in the relationship, the guy may have the assumption that you are clingy. They may say it back but most likely not mean it. Wait until you actually feel it. Don't just say it.
Remember, you are beautiful. Just the way you are. Never, EVER change for a man!
Signed
Aphrodite <3
Ladies:
If you get into a relationship with a guy, he won't be that prince charming that you have been searching for your whole life. They won't have that perfect personality, the one that shines like a diamond in the rough.
A relationship is a compact between two people who have a connection. Of course it's not set in stone that you are bound together forever. No man wants to feel that they have to be tied down by a girl in the 9th grade. Here are a few examples of what guys want.
- To have fun with the guys. They don't want to be constantly by your side. If a guy feels smothered, he will be more tempted to leave you or cheat on you. They have to get out every once in a while, so when he does get out, don't blow up his phone with text messages or phone calls, because at that moment you will look completely psycho. Just because he doesn't text you back when he is hanging with his friends, doesn't mean he doesn't like you, it means he just needs some space. Video games, football, WOW, etc. Just let him be a guy.
- Sex. Which, if you haven't been with him for at least a year, is a big NO NO! Don't give him a taste of you before you get to know him. If he wants sex, make him wait, because if he only wants you for sex, he will leave you quickly after getting what he wants.
- Games. Most guys love to play video games because its the "in thing". "EVERYONE HAS CALL OF DUTY SO THEY MUST HAVE IT TO". You will most likely get ignored for the game, which will upset you extremely. What you have to do is give him a few hours of the game then ask him to spend time with you, if he gets mad, don't blow up on him. Stay calm and try to explain that you want to spend time with him.
If you ever get the feeling of cheating, don't follow the feeling. I know that sometimes you feel like it's a must because you feel ignored, but it's not a must. I swear that to you. Cheating makes you feel guilty and it's nearly impossible to forgive yourself.
Relationships are a two way street. Both you and the man need to talk, work at the relationship to make it better. Never depend on your family or your friends to make your relationship better. It angers a man when you tell every single problem to a friend, expecting the friend to fix it. Nobody can make things better, accept you.
Remember that confidence is sexy to a man. If you constantly put yourself down, the guy will get angry and will eventually give up on trying to make you have confidence. Smile when they give you a compliment. One thing that helps you with your confidence boost is to look at yourself everyday in the mirror and say "I'm beautiful". Look at yourself and look at the beautiful qualities you have. Men don't like women who put themselves down, it makes them sick to their stomach actually. Remember that.
Never say "i love you" too early. If you say i love you after one month of dating, it will be meaningless. You won't mean it. You have a lust for them, a attraction. If you say i love you to early in the relationship, the guy may have the assumption that you are clingy. They may say it back but most likely not mean it. Wait until you actually feel it. Don't just say it.
Remember, you are beautiful. Just the way you are. Never, EVER change for a man!
Signed
Aphrodite <3
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Hello
1-15-11
Hello viewers, i am new to blogspot.com. I guess you could say i am a newbie. I'm not exactly sure what i will blog about on here, but im sure ideas will pop into my head eventually! :) My name is Brooke. I go by Aphrodite because i am a love fanatic. I can put relationships together, and smile at couples instead of gag, cuz i mean its stupid that people gag! People are allowed to be inlove, and just cuz you are a lonely old fart who can't stand other's happiness, doesn't mean that they shouldn't be allowed to enjoy themselves! Ugh i hate people like that. I am still in high school, a junior, watching this life fly by. I am engaged, to a wonderful man who is soon going into the air force, and we are extremely happy! I enjoy ranting, so if you like ranting, i'm the blog you will be reading at two a clock in the morning! lol! Well i hope at some point, i will have more than a few people reading my blogs! :) Have a good night
Signed
Aphrodite!
Hello viewers, i am new to blogspot.com. I guess you could say i am a newbie. I'm not exactly sure what i will blog about on here, but im sure ideas will pop into my head eventually! :) My name is Brooke. I go by Aphrodite because i am a love fanatic. I can put relationships together, and smile at couples instead of gag, cuz i mean its stupid that people gag! People are allowed to be inlove, and just cuz you are a lonely old fart who can't stand other's happiness, doesn't mean that they shouldn't be allowed to enjoy themselves! Ugh i hate people like that. I am still in high school, a junior, watching this life fly by. I am engaged, to a wonderful man who is soon going into the air force, and we are extremely happy! I enjoy ranting, so if you like ranting, i'm the blog you will be reading at two a clock in the morning! lol! Well i hope at some point, i will have more than a few people reading my blogs! :) Have a good night
Signed
Aphrodite!
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